Life has it’s own challenges. but no matter what life throws at us, we should never do some things because it would affect us in the long run.
At young ages, we tend to make various choice’s without the future in mind.
1. No matter what you do in life, never marry the wrong person
When you’re young, check your motives for marrying.
Never marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend.
For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one.
Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.
2. Seize every opportunity
When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet well younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself.
Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you’re older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances.
3. Check the bridges you burnt
When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain.
But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.
4. Avoid Abortions
You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment then. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby.
When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn’t mean you can’t make it in life or you can’t find a man in future.
5. Be responsible for the upbringing of your child/children
Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she’s pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran. But years later when you’re 50 something, you will wish you were responsible, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice
6. Be careful about marriage decisions
So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs.
You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurting, your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you were to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good.
You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse.
7. Don’t doubt God
When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way.
But don’t wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God.
Don’t be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up.
8. The body you messed up
You have only one body to live with all your life. The cigarettes, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you’re consuming; all that will destroy you slowly.
When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done.
9. The time you wasted
The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back.
10. The dreams and talents you wasted
Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don’t give up even if you encounter set backs, don’t give up on your dreams.
If you give up, when you’re older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to yourself, “That could have been me”.
Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don’t waste years of your life in a field that doesn’t fulfill you.